Dating for aspies
)) Actually if you're not seeking a "serious" relationship, try finding someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, which would be infinitely superior as far as getting "satisfaction" right off the bat.
As a mattaer of fact that tendency ("satisfaction" right off the bat) is listed as one possible symptom or sign of BPD.
I could probably date someone with AS, but i'd have to be attracted to them. ((It bringe me joy to find people who are not looking to be in relationships, but then again, i'm a cynic from two, no wait, three- broken homes.
But some aspies I wouldn't date if I was paid to because of personality clashes. I don't really think i'm like most of the people here. I've got enough problems of my own to deal with without someone elses too. Or is it just one because they all had a variable in common?
But some aspies I wouldn't date if I was paid to because of personality clashes. I don't really think i'm like most of the people here. I've got enough problems of my own to deal with without someone elses too.
If you're an Aspie, either date another Aspie or someone who is fascinated by nuttiness and its causes.
People date people who are as attractive as they are.
She's so great, and I'm hoping that our relationship lasts. My expierence tells that nts does not understand aspies and aspies nts, nts understands nts and aspies aspies, but aspies understand aspies better then nts understand nts. People with AS have various differences in their Theory of Mind that can make any AS-AS relationship just a difficult as any two NT's relationship could be.i once went on a date with another aspie and it was like the blind leading the blind (or the socially-impaired leading the socially-impaired).You think it would be really fun to have sex with me.i've had relationships with both, and they're equally as difficult, as far as i can see. I WOKE UP AND THEN I REALISED, I WAS NOT WHAT I HAD ALWAYS TRIED TO EMULATE. but people considering an AS/AS relationship shouldn't be put off by my horror story as i believe AS/AS relationships have a lot of potential.but then all relationships require work - it's no good expecting "hollywood" relationships where everything's fab, cos that just don't happen, folks. I could probably date someone with AS, but i'd have to be attracted to them.